Thursday, May 15, 2008

My Husband - Jimmy

My husband - Jimmy is the most wonderful person in my life, never will I imagine I would married this guy someday. Am I dreaming now? No...of course, we already have one baby girl named 'Sierra'. I called my husband 'dear', when I need attention I would call him 'Jimmy Yong'... :)

He is my prince charming, he is clean and neat, boyish look with spec, never changed his hairstyles for at least 15 yrs, and he is chubby (who cares, I am comfortable in his arm); Whatever it is, he is happy and confident with his overall look, he likes to groom himself a lot, he would have a hair cut every 2 weeks once. And of course I think he has a nice and sexy butt, and he claimed it happily.

He has great personality and optimistic, a popular sanguine like him has a lot of friends. He is sociable, energetic, warm, and helpful. He has got great sense of humour and cheeky, always talk crap and yet full of audience all the time, actually I am one of them and the most loyal ones. One thing I must admit is he is very good in acting and directing, it is gifted and what a waste to the media.

As a husband, he is a great lover and he loves his family dearly; To him family comes first, he would buy things for me and the family generously and be stingy to himself. He is sentimental and soft-hearted, honest, loving, caring, forgiving, respectful, understanding, responsible; He is sweet, as he would give me goodbye kiss before he goes to work and goodnight kiss before he sleeps, and I still enjoying the privilege; He would fill up the petrol tank for my car and I never worried I could not get out from my house without petrol; All the little things he does and gesture he shows, I could feel he cares. He always makes me smile from my heart, he reminds me of all his jokes and funny faces, my life will never bored. He is reliable, somehow he just able to give me the security that every woman yearn for, my trust in him 100%, so please do not fail me.

As a daddy, he is always fun, mischievous, he would make funny faces and he plays like a big boy together with Sierra. He would bath Sierra whenever he is free, dip in the pool with her, changes the diaper, smell her butt to check if she has poop, feed her and etc.

At work, he is the influential and he drives; He is passionate in whatever he does, he is intelligent, focused, always strive to do the best; He has got strong determination and persistent when faces new challenges and difficulties, always full of ideas, solutions. He is mature, he is very sure of what he wants to do and what to achieve in life; He is my good advisor whenever I am in doubt, without emotional involvement.

People may be wondering how perfect could he be, saint meh? Of course, he is not perfect and love is not blind either. He does have his flaws and weaknesses, and I have learn to accept the way it is and embrace it just like the way he does to me. It would be much pleasant to count your blessings than all his wrong accounts. Just to fulfill the curiosity of the human nature, I would name a few of his shortcomings.

He is always forgetful especially names, and I be his reminder; He likes to instruct people without realizing it, and I be the remote control or the 'Ah Si'; He is not a good listener, so I speak in repetition and he thinks I am a nagger and sometimes I do fret about it. He enjoys reading and playing his palm and computer in the toilet while he is doing his 'business', and I help him to detoxify whatever gadget or book before I use it; He farts a lot and loud, and I am immunised to it and hold my breathe; He is not so romantic as he bought me jewelry boxes consecutively 3 occasions in 1 year and yet telling me 'Dear, surprise!' (this show that how forgetful and careless he is); He is insensitive towards my feelings, sometimes all I need is just a HUG or a space for myself, he either talk too much or fully withdraw himself from my sight; He is always amused me with all the little mistakes I made, and we laugh aloud together;

That is Him, my husband... I am thankful for having him into my life, he has spiced up my life. My world is all about him and my baby and many babies yet to come. It is such a blessing for me to have him, the one and only love of my life. Along the way there is always ups and downs, and we share everything and walk through every circumstances and difficulties, and our love remain unchanged and grow stronger each day. What has changed now is we are both parent now, we have different roles to play as a father and mother, more family-center and responsibility, .

I love you, dear... Whatever you do, I know you trying to give and provide the best of the best to the family, and I am always here for you, saying a prayer to uphold you...Just want to say 'Thank You'. If I ever given a chance once again, I would still choose to hold your hands and grow old together...




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